As important as sports and regular family activities are, something magical happens to men and boys in wilderness. Aided by a wild expansiveness, night darkness illuminated by millions of stars and planets, and guided conversation around a flickering fire, men experience being alive in the enchanting, self-organizing mystery into which they were born. 

In this setting men and boys become open to new ways of seeing, thinking and being.  Both have time to connect, explore, and step outside of their regular routines and distractions. 

Illuman guides create a safe container for challenging, fun activities in which fathers and sons play together, and engage each other as authentic individuals.  Rituals lower resistance, reflection time opens channels for healthy communication. Deeper bonds result. Previous dads tell us that seeds were planted for a lifetime of fun adventures, and meaningful relationship.  

Our partnership with Nicky Wilks of Journeyman (Vashon Is., WA) leverages his four years of experience conducting similar weekends.  He is supported by Illuman men who have been trained as guides and mentors.

This weekend retreat is for guys 13-18 years old, accompanied by their father, grandfather, or adult male mentor. It will help fathers: